A place to exchange stories about your bosses, employees, or those interesting customers you see daily. You have nothing that mil needs to know about. A place where people from the hotel industry can come and share the stories of the things our guests do and say that make customer service the hated job that it is. And if she’s truly a JustNo, she will resist therapy with all kinds of spurious tactics until her dying day.A place to get support and advice dealing with mean, nasty, toxic, and / or abusive MILs and moms.Looks like you're using new Reddit on an old browser. Just say what's going on. We are people. get reddit premium. "Are You Trying To KILL Me?!
Mil/BF have a WHOLE lot of baggage they haven't unpacked yet.No no no no no no and NO never go to therapy with the abuser.A relationship with her is optional. She wants all of his attention, she wants to be treated like the 'wife' or 'GF'. We aim to keep this a safe space. *** She's not. They just learn new ways to abuse you.Tell him, that it would be best if he and his mother went to therapy first and dealt with their issues first because if what you’ve stated here is correct then the only problem she’s ever had with you was you taking away her sonsband... it was never anything you’d done.She definitely needs to commit to immediate progress on her anger issues and her tendency to jump straight to a tirade of verbal/emotional abuse any time she feels needy or challenged.
JUSTNOMIL join leave 1,540,086 readers. The only thing that will change the way she behaves is if you disappear or BF stays out of any serious relationships and stays available to her.Therapy will not help, it would be a complete waste of time. Saying that I was intruding on their time together and she could never see him without me becoming involved. I'm new to this corner of reddit and some of the posts in here have made me start to think that maybe what my partner's mother (FMIL) is doing isn't normal. BF said he wants all 3 of us to go to a counsellor and sit down and try to sort things out. No need for you to participate at all.Don't go.
She started calling me controlling, manipulative, a bitch, stupid little girl, etc. She needs to do some significant work first before this turns into a group dynamic.
Or that she will be able to keep the privacy of what’s talked about in the sanctum of therapy? We seek posts from users who have specific and personal relationship quandaries that other redditors can help them try to solve.
I got into my car, drove away and then pulled over and called bf because I was having a panic attack.
Adult children are SUPPOSED to do all of these things and have their OWN lives, NOT attached to their mother's hip. MIL & Mom-related Posts Only: More specifically, YOUR MIL / Mom. It's not a you problem.No. There was always a lot of fighting and arguing between them and he was always stressed about seeing her.
Does SO really think that his mom is anywhere near those capabilities? She said we were a great couple and loved having me around.
If your only advice is to jump straight to NC or divorce, your comment may be subject to removal at moderator discretion.NO. The subreddit for everything makeup related. He needs to give it to her straight ....he's an adult, adult children move out on their own, adult children have romantic relationships, adult children live together with their SO, adult children have families of their own, adult children make plans for their families that don't always include their parents, adult children put their SO & children first. From the early stages of pregnancy to when your teenagers are finally ready to leave the nest (even if they don't want to) we're here to help you through this crazy thing called parenting. Asking you to go to therapy with her implies that you're part of the problem...and you're not. So this is a mother/son issue. In the spirit of the JustNoNetwork and /r/raisedbynarcissists
"Childfree" refers to those who do not have and do not ever want children (whether biological, adopted, or otherwise).
* Remember that customer who yelled at you over coupons? She wasn't allowed around our house, bf would just go and visit here once every few weeks. Come, put your name tag on, and let's get the stress of work off of our chest.
A derivative of subreddits like Tales From Retail that involves stories about folks that go into other businesses and have irate customers mistake them for employees.
As part of our commitment to that mission, the AskWomen subreddit is curated to promote respectful and on-topic discussions, and not serve as a debate subreddit. but I wasn't allowed to do any of that because according to my parents "that's not for girls".
She needs to be told, by him, that he is not putting up with the way she acts and treats you any longer, simply because she's jealous and doesn't want him to 'grow up' and have his own life. It's a terrible idea.Go to therapy by yourself, go to therapy or couples counseling with your bf.ETA: I know it wasn't in the context of a therapy session, but remind your boyfriend that the last time you opened up (like you would be expected to in therapy) in front of your MIL (the stuff you told her about your family), she took that information and weaponized it against you (made fun of you, and then shared that presumably private information with her friends and family).She's already proven that she exercises bad judgement with sensitive and confidential information, and she's not entitled to another chance to do it again.Never go to therapy with your abuser.
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